Recieved my 1st X'mas card yesterday... really brighten my horrible, terrible, pathetic day a little... Thanks Sheila... it really has been awhile since we last meet... then, she was like 6-7mths pregnant... & now, her daughter is ald 16mths old & she's again 3mths pregnant... Time is really too fast to catch up with... it juz goes on & on without u even realizing it... r'ber we were still happily enjoying our poly days then but now she's gonna be a mother of two... every one leads a different life & have different wants but wat's important is to treasure wat u ald have so as not to regret in the future... but there are ppl out there who doesn't knw how to appreciate...
like some guys, no matter how capable their gfs are, not materialistic, able to go thro' thicks & thins with them, they'll not appreciated but drown themselves into temptations & wishfully hope for someone who possess a "tian shi lian kong with mo gui sheng cai" (heavenly pretty with hourglass figure) dream girl, as to help in boasting their ego... in mathematical term, the equation to ease a guy's ego simply needa satisfy the following: Breasts > Brain... a friend once "enlightened" me tt guys preferred blur queen so it's gd to make urself look stoopid in front of them... *hmm, sounds familiar... Oh Well, Good Job, Sis... lolx!* for some gals, no matter how hardworking their bfs are, how thoughtful & sweet, will compromise on everythg u raise out, will get watever u wished for, yet they'll juz take everythg for granted... Wishfully hope Mr. "jin gui" (Golden Tortoise) prince charming who possess the famous 5Cs (Cash, Credit Card, Car, Club, Condominium) could promote them to the "tai tai" status, enjoying hi-tea & non-expiry SPA membership...
Well, as for someone as old-fashioned like me, all i juz need is someone who can give me a sense of security, love me wholeheartedly & able to work towards the same goals in life... i'm someone who believes tt, "Action Speaks Louder Than Words"... if u really care or love someone, u can put aside ur pride & show how much u are willing to compromise & able to achieve... But if thgs doesn't work out as wat u wish for, then juz learn your lesson the hard way thro' like us, the typical Capricorn... tt's how i picked myself up from my failed r'ship...
~Love & Marriage~
A student asks a teacher, "What is love?" The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the padi field, choose the biggest padi and come back. But the rule is: you can go throught them only once and cannot turn back to pick." The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big padi, but he wonders.... may be there is a bigger one later. Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him. Later, when he finished more than half of the padi field, he start to realize that the padi is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted !!!! So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand. The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realise, you have already miss the person...."
"What is marriage then?" the student asked. The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field, choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go throught them only once and cannot turn back to pick. "The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher. The teacher told him, "This time you bring back a corn.... you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... this is marriage...
Countdown 17days to Christmas, 24days to New Year, & 31days to my Birthday...... hmm... wondering how life's gonna be like for the days to come......
saw tis from one of the issue of i-weekly,
Nice isn't it... sweet yet presentable... so Meeee.... was still hoping to recieve tis as X'mas or Birthday present from "someone"... not cheap though... Anyway, tink not anymore... probably i'll juz start saving a dollar everyday from now on, & buy it for myself on my following birthday... not used to buy myself expensive gifts... i actually mend 3pairs of sandals for $24 juz tis wk when i can juz simply buy new ones during X'mas sales instead... Yes, i'm tt stingy & mean to myself... but i'm juz to myself okieee... ppl who knws me, shld knw tt i'm generous to my loved ones & ppl i'm closed to...
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